Prepare, Then Integrate and Retool Yourself
Psychedelics challenge us, enchant us, and open us to new worlds of healing and joy. And then there’s the other side, where they may terrify us, leave us adrift between two worlds, or just plain disappoint us. A psychedelic is not a medication like Aspirin or an antibiotic, with a predictable dose-dependent effect, but a medicine for the soul, where have experiences and then absorb them afterwards, rendering new sense, new meaning and new perspectives in your life. But a lot of that work is up to you.
In the time after the medicine your brain enters a ‘critical period’ of flexibility where for a matter of days, up to months, it temporarily regains the pliability of youth. During this window period, you have a chance to install the beliefs and values you really believe in, rather than the annoying ones that linger as bad habits of the mind. So for instance, you might want to trust people more — or at least give them a fighting chance of being let in — and after the medicine is an opportunity to have a conversation with the side of you that clenches up and closes down, where you can coax it to wake up to today’s realities rather than compulsively say no to everything. If you are seeing the world through a darkened lens, after the medicine is when you can clean the gunk off your psychological glasses and respond to the world with more wisdom and judgement — a state of spiritually informed realism.
So, there is much to do after we take the medicine, but our culture is not well grounded in that work; we either turn it into a medical enterprise or borrow wholesale from indigenous cultures that have totally different meaning systems to our own. Psychedelics wake us up to the soul’s journey, what C.G. Jung called the process of individuation, and what spiritual, philosophical and artistic traditions have been engaged in since time immemorial. This exploration of our being brings us to new perspectives that get at our sense of purpose in this world, something beyond the checklists and diagnoses that are the stuff of mental health repair. It’s a mystical experience in a material world.
I am a psychotherapist, and I’ve been working with psychedelics since 2003, long before the current Psychedelic Renaissance made them such a trend. I can work with you in preparing for your journey and setting an intention, or at least having an idea of what you would like to have happen for yourself. And afterwards we can integrate the experience using holistic psychotherapy that mimics, or even reawakens the experience itself, as you go inside yourself, explore your remaining barriers to change, and help install new beliefs and attitudes that, moving forward, will become part of who you are.
Here’s What We Can Do:
· If you are just exploring the idea of a psychedelic, weigh the pros and cons of whether or not it’s something for you
· Join the Disintegration Psychedelic Support Group (Tuesday nights at 7:00 Eastern Time, $30)
Help prepare for a psychedelic experience
· Process it afterwards and install new habits and attitudes, perhaps even a new way of life
· If you had a difficult journey, help bring you back to earth and reground
And if you wish, we can go into long-term holistic psychotherapy beyond the term of the medicine
The tool I use for this is Holistic Psychotherapy. This kind of therapy invites you into a calm and centered state so you can go inside yourself, explore your own imaginal realms and keep the psychedelic healing going. You can also integrate your plant medicine experience by reconnecting with its imagery and by going on new journeys of self-exploration and self-acceptance.
I have been working with people who have taken psychedelics since 2003, and I have been doing therapy since 1996, using methods such as Internal Family Systems Therapy, the Clean Language approach, the Emotional Freedom Technique (“tapping”) and Harm Reduction. I use plant medicines myself, and so I am drawn to helping folks navigate these extraordinary catalysts for healing and change.
$30 for 30 minutes
Introductory Session
Contact me with your questions, concerns and ideas. I offer a $30 for 30 minutes consultation so that you can prepare for or process a psychedelic experience, or just find out more about the way I work. I am located in New York City but these days I am operating purely online, so we can talk by phone, FaceTime, Zoom, or any other platform you are comfortable with. Any communication you make with me comes under the aegis of psychotherapy and is completely confidential. I don’t share any of your information with anyone.